What The Heck is you Higher Self? (and how to connect to it)

So what in the world is you "higher self"? We hear about this so much in spirituality. Especially in the New Age community, but theres often very conflicting ideas on what your higher self is.

You're probably wondering why you should even care what it is? What relevance does it have to living your purpose?

I'm here to break it down for you.

Now I'm not here to get deep in to semantics. That's not my thing.

However, what I WILL tell you is based on my personal experience working with clients and in my own spiritual journey.

If you're a visual person, click here to watch my live stream on the topic.

What is your higher self:

Simply put, your Higher Self is the most aligned version of yourself.

It is you ON FLEEK! You see, You are just physical version of you higher self. It knows your soul gifts, life sessions, and could contracts that you decided on before you incarnated on earth.

It knows more about you, your gifts, and your purpose than your spirit guides, angels and whatever other light beings you work with, because your Higher Self is YOU!

You see when we go about our lives as humans we become subject to programming and conditioning from our parents and society and everything we knew about ourselves changes.

We become insecure and unaware, because as children we’re disempowered into trusting our intuition and using our imagination because its viewed as impractical and immature.

We become shy and fearful of using our intuition, out of fear of being wrong, because as kids we learned that when we’re wrong theres a punishment associated with that wether we got spanked or mom and dad shamed or ridiculed us. So we associate being wrong with pain and there becomes a fear around it.

Which is why I believe it's difficult for a lot of people to re-learn how to tap into their intuition, because of the attachment to being right and needing that validation.

How to connect with your higher self

Actually, you are constantly connected to your higher self. Your higher self isn’t separate from you however you do want to consciously connect to it to

Here are some solid ways to connect to your higher self.

1) Be open

This is gong to sound lame but willingness is the first and most important step in this process. With all things in spiritual growth you have to be WILLING to do the work to create what you want in your life. Just having the desire and the willing ness will be a huge game changer.

We often forget how monumental being willing and open to receive is for us. As well as asking for help.

2) Sit down and ask “what do I need to know about xyz?”

So at this point if you meditate, please meditate if not just take a few deep clearing breaths through your nose and out of your mouth about 7 times to deeply ground you and help clear your mind.

Sit with your self with the intention to communicate to your higher self.

I have a free resource to help you out with this step, if you need a hand.

3) Trust the guidance and act accordingly

This is the part that gets overlooked particularly the action portion. That's when doubt creeps in and that voice in the back of your head creeps in

Lets talk about intuition vs your mind

Intuition is a deep KNOWING. It's not rooted in fear or anger or any emotion actually.

Your mind analyzes and picks apart everything when it comes to your intuition.

The only thing to really squash your inner critic when working with guidance from your Higher Self, is to just trust your truth and ACT!

Treat is as an experiment!

If you want to take this to the next level, I have a free resource for you. Download my FREE Higher Purpose Toolkit and it will get you started!

Be sure to share your thoughts in the comments, below!

Sim xx